One of the hottest topics in the world of transgendered community is coming out to those around us. While many crossdressers choose to stay in the closet for varying reasons, some of us do take the leap in deciding to share with friends and/or loved ones. I count myself very fortunate in this area, because I have been able to share with those close to me and they have been very receptive and supportive.
While there are many ways to reveal our ‘secret identities’, there is something that I feel gained each time. It’s hard to put a label on what this is, but I certainly feel more connected to my identity and gain more courage to tell more people. Whether or not this is just a side effect of “coming out” remains to be seen, but I do feel that I am at the point where I am ready to tell more of my family and friends about Jessica.
Would this be the wisest thing to do? Well, I guess that it depends on whom you ask. One person may be thinking of your personal safety and professional considerations, while another may just want you to be yourself regardless of what those around you may think or say. It certainly is a delicate proposition, one that cannot be taken lightly.
I may be more positive about this because I have been blessed with people who welcomed Jessica into their world with open arms. Had they rejected this part of me, I might be blogging about why no crossdresser should speak about their crossdressing to anyone. However, this has not been the case, and so for the last couple of weeks, I have begun considering telling more of my family members and friends. I’ve discussed this extensively with my wife and we are currently weighing the pros and cons carefully.
Whatever you may choose to do in your life, be sure that you must do what is right for you. It is not feasible, unfortunately, for all of us to announce our feminine sides to the world, but for those of us who do, I can only hope that each admission helps us all on the road to acceptance in this world.
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If we don’t share, who will? I agree, whatever you choose to do , do what is right for you. I’ve chosen to transition because I’m transsexual. I’d rather think that the choice had been for too long to hide instead.
This is the default. Great post!
Thanks, Lori. I hope that as I continue to reveal Jessica to those around me, I am met with continuing love and support.