Comments on: Wife Dreams of Dressing Husband in Lingerie

By: JayCee

JayCee — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 08:21:24 +0000

Link to Dear Abby is dead.

Here it is along with a few other on similar subjects:
http://www.uexpress.com/printable/print.html?uc_full_date=20090624&uc_comic=da

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050330

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20100421

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20090129

By: Kellie Hollis

Kellie Hollis — Mon, 02 Jan 2012 04:51:07 +0000

I started dressing in my wife’s underwear during sex, and she was open to it at first. But, this past week, I kind of had a revelation that this was not just some kink in the bedroom and that I actually enjoyed dressing completely as a woman. Don’t get me wrong. I had inklings about this before, but I think I was in denial about it.

My wife has been incredibly supportive–in fact she just did my makeup this evening, and it looks better than I have ever seen it. She even waxed my arms this week and bought me some of my own makeup to start learning the tricks of the trade.

But, I think the xdressing in the bedroom now is a turnoff for her. I can’t blame her, and again, it’s even caused me to realize I can enjoy it without the sexual gratification part that I used to think was the only reason I wanted to xdress. Now, I’d like to get better at it and perhaps go to some public outings and further explore my feminine side.

Jessica, I really enjoyed reading and watching everything on your site with all of the useful and interesting posts and the humor! I now realize that I am on a very long, scary (and sometimes exciting) road but one that people like you have already scoped out for some of us, and I appreciate you passing along what you have learned and opening up the dialogue for people to share!

xxoo
Kellie

By: Wendae

Wendae — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 20:29:38 +0000

She is a jewel among women.

By: Jane

Jane — Mon, 18 Apr 2011 05:44:12 +0000

Lee

I would insist that he gets his own clothes. If he is considerate he would never wear yours without your premission. Take him shopping or search ebay or visit the thrift stores.

By: lee

lee — Fri, 08 Apr 2011 03:03:54 +0000

i need some help here. my boyfriend is a crossdresser and i love him very much. i do not want to change anything about him, but i would like to feel like i am in this part of his life a little more then i am..please give me some advice on this.. i love her very much.. i would like for her to leave my clothes alone though…they seem to disapear alot..hint,hint…

By: John

John — Wed, 02 Mar 2011 11:11:23 +0000

My Wife used to make me go for perms in the 80s I loved it
I am now 60 thin built and nonw wearing pretty dresses and all the other clothes around the house. I also have all the makeup put on at times in spas. A lot of women like men to cross dress
My wife is one of them. I am rather small built so I CAN PASS AS A WOMEN

By: M and J

M and J — Wed, 29 Dec 2010 22:36:57 +0000

Hi All – read all the responses…interesting. There shouldn’t be any judgments on this topic. We have found that most people have some kinks/fetishes/preferences whatever you call it. Us, happily married, him xdressed before marriage, introduced while dating. Wife more than accepted, took him wearing lingerie to buying him wigs, make-up dresses — created a whole persona (Marissa). She’s not lesbian. We keep this very private and under control (have kids, professionals, very normal family)… we do enjoy the fun and variety xdressing provides. Definitely adds some spice to the bedroom. Kisses M&J

By: Nirmala

Nirmala — Mon, 27 Dec 2010 09:33:09 +0000

Relay you are lucky girl. Wish you good luck

By: maggied

maggied — Thu, 23 Dec 2010 21:26:02 +0000

There is nothing wrong with asking your husband to crossdress. Men ask and expect women to wear all kinds of sexy lingerie for them. The real question is if he is stong enough in his masculinity to experiment with his feminine side.

I remember the first time my wife asked to see me dressed. Of course I was a closet crossdresser and scared to death she would laugh when she saw me or worse yet leave, but she did neither.

By: graham

graham — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 21:10:20 +0000

he one lucky man i just wish i had someone like you i would wear anything you want my to right now i wearing panties bras dress as i wight this i do all my house work in ashort miad dress last week i forgot to lock my door and the lady next door came in and saw me dresss up she took one look and ask me were i was wend i turn around she saw it was me now i have to clean her place once a week we have great fun doing this but i will like to meet some i can dress up for

By: Robert

Robert — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 15:09:10 +0000

Leslee
It would all depend upon your approach on the subject. With all the news lately about mens skirts becoming more readily available I think the approach would be simpler. Talk to your wife, girlfriend or other about these news items. Like read up on Mark Jacobs and the other designers who are placing their mens skirts on sale through H & M Fashions. Utilikilts are also being offered, just type in utilikilkts on your toolbar. Also skortman.com is offering custom made skirts and/or skorts for men and boys.
It is a start towards for equalization of the genders. If your concerned with being seen in a skirt/skort or utilikilt, don’t be. I have worn mine out grocery shopping, to Walmart and other places. I have never received any flack from anyone. I am not gay, nor do I have any leanings in that direction. The comfort levels far exceed that of wearing pants or even the baggy shorts now available. You will find that the needle you referred to is harder to find.

By: paul

paul — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 00:59:07 +0000

wow,
you sound veri much in to the idea of crossdressing.i can understand your mans doubts,simply because most women are veri resentful. as long as you are into it,your guy id veri veri lucky to have you. i wish my wife was half as supportive as you are.
luvs
paul

By: Leslee

Leslee — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 00:53:36 +0000

What a twist on this subject. Any cross dresser would be estatic to have a wife want him to dress in sexy female cloths. These women are difficult to find. I think a needle in a haystack would be easier to obtain.

By: Robert

Robert — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 09:54:43 +0000

There are several movies but most involve young boys, not men. The movies like DRESS CODE and SORORITY BOYS are excellent movies, although DRESS CODE is a little more serious then the latter. Ma vie en rose is another good movie, but you need to speak french, no sub-titles or voice overs. There are others on amazon and other sites, just look under similar movies. I am a ardent supporter of Men in Skirts. I find them quite comfortable as opposed to pants. I also believe that mothers should dress their sons in skirts, with dresses being another option. Women wear mens jeans and shirts, so guys should also wear skirts and shirts. Picture this; a man dressed in a knee length black skort/skirt with a light grey polo shirt, crew socks (white) and athletic shoes or sandals. He is modestly dressed, almost the same as if he were wearing black shorts instead of the skort or skirt.
This spring (2010) they are suppose to be bringing out a whole line of men’s and boys skirts. Skortman.com is now offering custom made men’s and boys skirts and skorts. On ebay you can right now purchase mens skirts and kilts at a reasonable amount starting at $29. There are other groups that are proposing something in men’s and boy’s dresses, but the styles I’ve seen are either to revealing or are uglier then you could imagine. I don’t think women would wear something as ugly as the men’s dresses I saw.

By: Sara Elise

Sara Elise — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 18:02:02 +0000

Oh, my…late for this party, but what a great thought!!
If only…!!