Comments on: Life & Acceptance

By: Jessica De Leon

Jessica De Leon — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 08:35:56 +0000

Yes, it’s a tricky decision on when to reveal the crossdressing to someone you are dating. I remember being very scared and would never flat out tell a girl about my secret until we knew each other for a bit.

By: Daniel Ray

Daniel Ray — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 01:11:47 +0000

While I can understand the need to hide the fact that one cross dresses. I am a single man and recently joined a dating site and removed the fact that I cross dress to see if I got more messages. So far it has not helped.

By: Jessica De Leon

Jessica De Leon — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 21:33:10 +0000

Hi Stephanie, I am glad that you don’t hide from your wife, though I can understand her need for someone else to talk to. I do know that on the forums there are sections reserved for loved ones to speak their minds.

Hmmm… all these hockey playing crossdressers, you girls should all get together and form a team, you could tour the country

By: Stephanie

Stephanie — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 21:32:04 +0000

Thank you for sharing this post. I too feel the same way. I did not hide from my wife for nearly that many years, but I did hide at one time. Today she has a constant struggle with my CD andoften feels lonely without anyone to talk to. Getting old and feeling like the years of dressing the way you see yourself are leaving you is very hard.
Hockey helps in some way. I releives stress. It is good to hear that there are hockey playing CD’s out there. Fall / winter sign ups are here see you on the ice

Steph.

By: Jessica De Leon

Jessica De Leon — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 23:42:30 +0000

So true, life is very precious and when all is said and done clothes and gender identity shouldn’t outweigh love and acceptance.

By: Leslee

Leslee — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 23:41:19 +0000

It would be wonderful to dress any time one would like but wives dont accept that well. But speaking of Hockey,I got varacose vein problems after playing street hockey on one leg due to to tight knee pads. Luckely they havnt gotten any worse lately and dont look bad when wearing a skirt. Nylons are something I always liked but now they are out of style and with the varacose vein they were a help.
I also red the article about the elderly crossdresser and could relate way to well. Why is life so complicated? We must learn not to be so judgemental about others and love ourselves.

By: Jessica De Leon

Jessica De Leon — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 11:51:44 +0000

Karren, your positive attitude is so uplifting as I read your posts from day to day. Your sense of humor and your outlook on crossdressing is very refreshing and I am really happy to know you.

By: Karren Hutton

Karren Hutton — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 11:50:28 +0000

As a friend of mine tells me all the time “life sucks then you die”. But it doesn’t have to be that way.. I missed that on cd.com but her story is mine up to the part where her wife dies.. No mater what happens going forward.. I have a positive attitude about life, love, and crossdressing.. And getting old does suck! Trust me! Probably worse after my 10:30 pm hockey game tonight! Sigh.