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	<description>Official Transgender Crossdresser Website Blog of Comedian Jessica De Leon</description>
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		<title>By: Jessica De Leon</title>
		<link>http://www.jessica-who.com/2009/09/one-year-ago/comment-page-1/#comment-1324</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica De Leon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 19:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am glad that this post spoke to you in that way, hugs right back :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am glad that this post spoke to you in that way, hugs right back <img src='http://www.jessica-who.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Samantha E.</title>
		<link>http://www.jessica-who.com/2009/09/one-year-ago/comment-page-1/#comment-1290</link>
		<dc:creator>Samantha E.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 18:46:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jessica,

How true everything you say is! I&#039;m often tearing around inside to decide what I should (should I dress, should I wait). Often I find myself under-dressing to provide some of the best of both worlds, but out in public it&#039;s tough, you always wonder can someone see through it? The more I think about it the less certain I am - which is why I often just seize the moment and get dressed. Someday I will come to true grips with it... and your post certainly helps me realize I am not alone in how I feel either! *big hugs*

~Samantha</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jessica,</p>
<p>How true everything you say is! I&#8217;m often tearing around inside to decide what I should (should I dress, should I wait). Often I find myself under-dressing to provide some of the best of both worlds, but out in public it&#8217;s tough, you always wonder can someone see through it? The more I think about it the less certain I am &#8211; which is why I often just seize the moment and get dressed. Someday I will come to true grips with it&#8230; and your post certainly helps me realize I am not alone in how I feel either! *big hugs*</p>
<p>~Samantha</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica De Leon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica De Leon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:09:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is the key, indeed. Thank you so much Julie :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is the key, indeed. Thank you so much Julie <img src='http://www.jessica-who.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Julie M Shaw</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie M Shaw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 15:48:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>True to yourself - THAT is the key.  Thank you for expressing it so eloquently.  You are a beautiful lady, inside and out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>True to yourself &#8211; THAT is the key.  Thank you for expressing it so eloquently.  You are a beautiful lady, inside and out.</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica De Leon</title>
		<link>http://www.jessica-who.com/2009/09/one-year-ago/comment-page-1/#comment-1226</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica De Leon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 00:42:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The thing about secrets is that we suffer inside while no one around us is any wiser. By sharing and coming out to people, my inner turmoil was alleviated ;). Thanks for your comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The thing about secrets is that we suffer inside while no one around us is any wiser. By sharing and coming out to people, my inner turmoil was alleviated <img src='http://www.jessica-who.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> . Thanks for your comment.</p>
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		<title>By: Miranda T</title>
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		<dc:creator>Miranda T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:49:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your wise words today, Jessica - especially your statement that coming out has improved your self-esteem and personal relationships.  I&#039;m not sure any of us can understand the toll keeping secrets has on us and those around us.  We don&#039;t always have a choice about whether to keep our secrets, but sharing with others takes a huge load off my mind!

Mira
(Tiresias Girl)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your wise words today, Jessica &#8211; especially your statement that coming out has improved your self-esteem and personal relationships.  I&#8217;m not sure any of us can understand the toll keeping secrets has on us and those around us.  We don&#8217;t always have a choice about whether to keep our secrets, but sharing with others takes a huge load off my mind!</p>
<p>Mira<br />
(Tiresias Girl)</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica De Leon</title>
		<link>http://www.jessica-who.com/2009/09/one-year-ago/comment-page-1/#comment-1225</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica De Leon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:25:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Karen, you&#039;re so right about learning from each other.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Karen, you&#8217;re so right about learning from each other.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Cameron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Cameron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:24:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi
A great post you are certainly right every adventure is different but none no less important than any other. 
I always think we can learn from each other with the different challenages we all face.
Thanks
Karen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi<br />
A great post you are certainly right every adventure is different but none no less important than any other.<br />
I always think we can learn from each other with the different challenages we all face.<br />
Thanks<br />
Karen</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica De Leon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica De Leon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 16:31:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So true, thanks for adding your insight Zoë. The hard work is worth it because of the great feedback I receive from everyone :).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So true, thanks for adding your insight Zoë. The hard work is worth it because of the great feedback I receive from everyone <img src='http://www.jessica-who.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p>
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		<title>By: Zoë Suzanna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zoë Suzanna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 16:30:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;accepting yourself is only the first step&quot;

I like what you have said.  I would further add that I feel acceptance of oneself happens continually as we go through each trial for each one presents the question to us &quot;Who am I?&quot;

With each lesson learned, we change a little more and over time we are a different person than we were say as a teen and so forth.  I would say it&#039;s not enough to just accept that we are a cross-dresser, transsexual or whatever...although that is a big step... every step thereafter requires acceptance of who we become, blossom into each moment, each day.

Thanks for you hard work on this blog!

Zoë</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;accepting yourself is only the first step&#8221;</p>
<p>I like what you have said.  I would further add that I feel acceptance of oneself happens continually as we go through each trial for each one presents the question to us &#8220;Who am I?&#8221;</p>
<p>With each lesson learned, we change a little more and over time we are a different person than we were say as a teen and so forth.  I would say it&#8217;s not enough to just accept that we are a cross-dresser, transsexual or whatever&#8230;although that is a big step&#8230; every step thereafter requires acceptance of who we become, blossom into each moment, each day.</p>
<p>Thanks for you hard work on this blog!</p>
<p>Zoë</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica De Leon</title>
		<link>http://www.jessica-who.com/2009/09/one-year-ago/comment-page-1/#comment-1223</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica De Leon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 16:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the kind words Seleena, *hugs back*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the kind words Seleena, *hugs back*</p>
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		<title>By: Seleena K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Seleena K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 16:16:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another wonderful post Jessica. Thank you so much for so eloquently putting in words what many of us deal with. 

*hugs*

Seleena</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another wonderful post Jessica. Thank you so much for so eloquently putting in words what many of us deal with. </p>
<p>*hugs*</p>
<p>Seleena</p>
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