Last week, we learned of a new trend burning up the fashion scene in Japan and how designers were starting to manufacture skirts specifically for men. About a year or so ago, the hot topic was bras created for guys. Also, there are several internet stores that carry blouses, dresses and even panties that are tailored for the male body.
In our post about Japanese guys in skirts, I commented that these types of clothing (designed for men not women) do not appeal to me at all. Here’s why. . .
While I think it’s great that these clothes exist and understand why crossdressers would seek out such items, they’re just not for me.
Strong Enough For a Woman
Some of you may remember the old deodorant commercials with the tagline, “strong enough for a man, but pH balanced for a woman.” In the case of men’s women’s clothing (please stay with me 
), these articles of clothing are cut for the male form which probably means tops are made wider in the shoulder area and bottoms are tailored closer to the hips. Underwear. . . well suffice it to say they are a bit bigger in the right place *ahem*.
As far as I know, there aren’t any retailers that you can physically patronize to purchase these particulars.
The Real Thing
Most of the fun in crossdressing is shopping for clothes and accesories that were made for the opposite gender and wearing women’s clothes manufactured for men just seems fake to me. It’s similar to people wearing counterfeit shoes, carrying imitation handbags and scented with impostor perfume. Sure, these things are all strikingly similar to their real counterparts, but it just doesn’t feel right to me.
I enjoy wearing clothes made for women. Yes, they don’t fit me quite right. My shoulders are always prominently displayed and my hips don’t fill out dresses or jeans. There’s an art in taking your ole male self and putting in the energy to emulate a female image.
Video Game Analogy
Speaking of emulation, there are several software programs available that act like (emulate) older video game consoles. Most of them can be had easily and the games can be downloaded as rom files. Using these tools, one can revisit video games from the past without any need for the physical hardware and cartridges.
This can be fun if you’re away from home and just have your laptop with you or if you want to try a game / game system before you buy it. There are even adapters that allow you to plug in the old controllers using a USB attachment. To a video game outsider, this may seem just as good as the real thing, but to me it’s just not good enough.
In both cases (clothes and games), nothing less than authentics will do for me. Call me a stickler, but I’d like to say that I’m a purist and as long as the genuine “stuff” is available and can be attained feasibly, I’ll be going for it.
As always, this is just my opinion on the matter. How do you feel about blouses, dresses, skirts and lingerie made for men? Is this your preferred option or would you rather stick with the women’s clothing made for women. Leave your point of view in the comment section 
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to some you who dont understand being what you are and when you want to be, some want to be potenional women and others just want to wear what they feel like, as a male i have only ever wore nightshirts or nighties eathier in hospital or at home, when i was younger i was forced to wear a tennis dress white lacey socks and those frilly panties with lace across the bum, this was due to not doing as i was told and screamcried loud like a girl, i had a grandmother only mothers would like to use to pull their kids into line, every night i would have a bath and on the bed was a nighty belonging to my aunty whom was short my height and 5 years older with pink panties that she bought from a travelling salesperson, not one pair but 7 for the days of the week as washing was once a week or pending water twice a week, as days went by and more i said no to requests from nan the more she was determin i wear a dress, but this was when i settled down, made to go shopping with nan and made get out of the car with a dress on and pink panties with the short dress had a whole new meaning, walking around the store and finding the items she wanted she merged to the clothing department wear the girly clothes were, she called me over and asked did i want to pick my own panty not boys stuff girly panty, i would not do it and that made things more worse, she found a nylon pettycoat and nylon panties was to be her choice when i got back to her house, no it was put on me in the car park in front of every one watching and laughing, she got 3 petties and 4 nylon panties, on the way home i could feel the nylon slidding on every corner feeling funny but nice, the next day i had to dress as the clothes were laid out on the bed, white nylon pettycoat pink panties and then the dress while nan watched and then done the zip up at the back, i said thankyou which surpprised her, that night pop was due home after a week away and nan told me to change so as pop did not see me but he knew about the tennis dress and panties so i refused to change, i sat there waited for him to walk in which to no surpprise to him saying, you mucked up again and said to nan good choice this time for him and tomorrow we go into town and do the shopping and he is to go dressed like how he is now, i let out a force scream and heard the words shorter dress this time panty showing said nan, but not that they did not know is i was enjoying it, anyway to this day i still like to wear what im happy in whether womens lingerie dress or a skirt it dont change the fact of who we really are, human, if women dont like men going to bed in a nighty or a satin cami as it shows a guys femm side, think ladies does your man like another man in bed to, meaning why i say this, how many ladies wear guys pjs to bed, mmm just a thought to think about, i hate it when a marjority of people desrciminate x-dressers calling them all the filthy names, i know i have had to live with it all my life from a family member for fourty years, forced to dress as a girl started when i was 4 years old at nans till i was 13 years old and still a short dress panty showing, but if this sort of thing went on today its called child abuse but it made me stronger to appreciate my life as free as the birds and not locked away somewhere, and yes im married and wear womens panties pettycoats dress’s skirts anything my wife agrees to let me wear, when i buy things not always gonna fit the wife gets to benifit by it and it works out well, oh by the way the wife wont wear womens clothes only the bras and panties the ones that had no room for me, anyway peoples enjoy life as its short and long time dead and if by chance some bloke comes up to me dressed in a skirt not gay their hands are sticky,lol, and showed he is only a male not a woman want a be dulled up, i have no problems, anotherthing is i hate are those blokes that gets off on womens lingerie whom think they cross dress, not a good thing seeing men blowing into womens panties while wering them , they not what they say they are, (jollypullers), lol, thankyou to those who liked my storey and apolygise to those i board sh/less, while doing this storey my wife bought my first bra and fitted it on me, bugger bugger its on and feels restrictive she said dont worry your wearing that to bed tonight so when i want yourrr attention when i want a drink i just flick the elastic strap, and yes guys it stings like ,/,/ oh well you have to try it to find out what i mean by ,/,/ lol,
I wear a skirt everyday,to work and when im not at work.I am just the same person as if i was wearing jeans,which i dont wear but maybe once a month at most.You should try it some time,then you would know why guys like skirts.And just a FYI,women adopted the skirt from the mens wardrobe,AND it wasnt until the 1930’s or so til women wore pants when women first started wearing pants,and they had the risk of being arrest.Do a google search on the history of the skirt.Dont be afraid.And most women like to see a guy in a skirt.As of last night i was standing in line at the cash register,the was a woman behind me and she said,” i really like your skirt” i then said ” thanks”.I told her “im was tired of just wearing pants”,she then said“i dont blame you,skirts are much better,
and you look nice in that skirt”…(the skirt was a red/white plaid pleated skirt about 3 inches above the knee or so).So give it a try guys,its not that really of a big deal to wear a skirt (in public)..you will see what i am talking about.What a guy wears,does not say what his sexual preference is……
Jessica…your cute (dude)……
I also like to wear a skirt or a dress it feel so comfortable and I like it a lot I wear it as much as I can, but my wife said what example am I for my two boys, she is scared that they will get a wrong message.
Your wife is insecure in her own femininity. Femininity should be embraced and encouraged, just as much as masculinity is. Why is it okay for a daughter to wear jeans and a hoodie and play in the mud with boys but its not okay for a son to wear a skirt to a party and have fun painting nails and watching movies with his girlfriends? If you wear a skirt around your sons, it will show them that you are a secure, strong male who can express himself any way he chooses, without fear of what others think of him, or what they might expect of him. It will teach your kids to grow and explore, not be oppressed or taught that ‘feminine’ feelings are wrong or bad. You can be strong and feminine.
Okay if the chain of thoughts is that it’s crossdressing for a male to wear a dress or skirt. But if a girl wear a three-piece suit of a man. It’s called modern style. If a guy wants does the same thing in a dress in public. Call the psych ward. We have another one for rubber room. I thought its the twenty-first century. It time of change. Let males wear a skirt and the nylons too. Let’s not be abarrassed. If a girl now wore pants in the early twenty-century she be put to the psych ward!
U r right myy dear friend, why not we also wear female wordrobe
Is that a question or that a belief. I don’t wear female clothes, because there female clothes. Because their forbidden. Because I feel more comfortable in them. Does it get me excited. A little. It can’t be explained. It’s a taboo for men. To wear women’s clothes in public. The opposite is the style for women. Right! Check your history in the past fifty or sixty years. Or father it was a crime for women wear trousers or men’s wear in public. See if I’m right!
If you are forced to wear womans clothes would it be a sin because I have 4 sisters and they are getting old enough, smart enough, and strong enough so I broke in their diary (for the fun of it) and they were planning to do so. Because I see google and people posting stuff about the bible saying a woman can not wear a mens clothing and men can’t wear womens clothing, so I want to be sure. Please answer?!?!
Most of the references I found in the bible refer to “gender specific” Items of clothing such as a Bra. But with the advent of man boobs,[ thanks to the assorted chemicals and hormones found in our food] I don’t believe that it applies any longer. some days I wake up to “b” cups on my chest, and others I’m as flat as a board. the primary reference is to modesty which states that ” to be modest, one must be covered from shoulders to knees,no “ifs ands,buts or maybe”. so I think a t-shirt with a nice skirt would suffice.
The only place in the Bible that mentions cross dressing is in Deuteronomy 22 which says it is an “abomination unto the LORD thy God”. This same book also gives us important rules to live by like not wearing clothing of blended materials, having to marry a girl if you rape her and take her virginity (if she was found to not be a virgin before the rape she is taken and stoned to death), if your brother dies you have to marry his wife, and if you sleep with a woman that is betrothed to another man then both you and the woman are thrown out of the town and stoned to death. Not to mention that in the new testament, Jesus himself was preaching against many of these old rules.
The bible it’s a subject I care not to get in to much. Not because it possible have value, but are they quoting believe that happen several hundred years ago. Or fact. If you take it way to literate nearly all women in the last hundred or so. Have been going again the bible. Never men who wear women clothes. Check your history. For one instance, the time of shakespear. They were many men who did the women’s role. All because thought. It was unbecoming for a women to do it. Until someone or someone’s decided that a women should to it. That is a piece of fact.
I am currently laying in bed with a big tshirt and a pair of cute VS panties. Their Bikini cut. And their soo comfy. I just wish I could
Show them off.
Lucky Guy carry on enjoy
@ Asker: The is a concept that indeed people are not supposed to wears garments bel;onging to the other gender (Deutrimony 22:5). This is an old edict of the Roman emperor in order to stop criminals excaping by dressing up like women. I have read somewhere that it was also a part of the law in the Middle East in order to stop men from prostituting themselves on the Holy Mountain.
Around 1900 the psychiatrists Binet and later Jung indicated that wearing garment which would belong to the other gender would be a mental disorder. Note, the church was loosing attendancy, both Jung and Binet had become more involved with religion. Women wearing pants in those days would be considered hysterical and required treatment. At present the connotation of mental disorder is left as psychiatrists and psychologists do understand that not following fashion can’t be considered as a mental disorder.
In the ’40 a number of books have been written on the influence of theology on psychology. Rather interesting.
But even more interesting is that still more items of church law are being used, e.g. the owner of a building is liable for damages caused by the building. Etc.
Furthermore Asker, if you read back you will see that women have been borrowing from the mans closet, but that is just one way traffic called emancipation…
A couple of months back. I was doing research ( I research many subjects, crossdress, andrognyous, also mental inapprovement, ufo’s are a few of my interests). I found by accident. A person who is in EU( European Union). Who has dresses in dresses, skirts, blouses, nylons, high heels. Has girlish hair-do. Wears makeup. Earrings, brackets, purses. But you can tell he’s a male. I don’t if this helps, but there are some androgynous people out there in public. I don’t known what the reaction of the locals are. To them. Is it postive or negitive or neutral. I try to get as much information as possible. For my own interest . But I must share somethings .
Really, I don’t see it as a problem. It’s clothes,
who cares if it’s for a guy or a girl. It’s time to
put aside what you think what is right or wrong.
What makes you think we should listen to you?
Are you thinking your a God of some kind.
Get over it and move on. And yes I wear them too.
please clarify this response
The only thing I hate about Xdressing,it took me so long to give in to my feelings,I had to be macho and manly.I’m 63 and just learned
I have this fem side(not gay) about 6months.
I love the challenge of getting it right,anticipation of going out,
and how nice and sexy the soft and satin feel against my skin.
One other thing I hate is I can’t tell my brother or most friends
about my new side.I have found gay friends and most women don’t care.
Jackie you are not alone, I to am 6’3″. However, I realized something was different about me when I was a teenager, but I did not know what it was until I was in my 30s. Now I am in my 40s and I except and love who I am. Its still hard to find people who can except me and be my friend being I am a CD. I just continue to be me and do my thing at home. What would be nice is to start a gathering at my house like once a month or something. My wife and I are separated and a divorce is in our future, not do to the crossdressing, but do to fighting alllllllll the time about the past and everything that has happened!!
At any rate, just enjoy who you are and be happy with yourself!!
Rachel Victoria
Regarding the statement about it being illegal for Women to wear pants in several points in history, that is what the English Church convicted Joan of Ark for doing. They were unable to find her guilty of Heresy, so instead they found her guilty of wearing men’s clothing (which was due to the armor she wore on the battlefield fighting against England) and her punishment for dressing like a man was to be burned at the stake.
The city of Paris abolished a law stating it was illegal for women to wear pants only a few years ago.
I’m searching for help here and there. So, my things I dislike:
1. having to shave my face every day.
2. It takes a long time to put on makeup.
3. I don’t have the right clothes to make me feel like who I am.
4. I still have to be discreet about me.
5. I don’t have any support, or someone in my life.
Things I like:
1. I like feeling good about myself, when I wear womens clothes.
2. I don’t like wearing guys clothes (that IS a good thing)!
3. I like that my hair is getting longer, so I can do more things w/it.
4. I can wear what I want, when I’m at home, as I live by myself.
5. I’m able to find sites like this, now that I’m on the internet.
Melissa you are in the same boat most of us have been in or still are in. Sites like this can and will assist you in getting you through. In the end you will have to make your own choices on alot of these issues and you will. It all takes time and that is the hardest part. As I was saying to Jackie up above, I would love to be able to uses my home as a meeting or gathering place for crossdressers to come and let their hair down so to speak and just have fun together talking about all of our issues and solutions to those issues and to just have fun being with others like us!!!
My best to you and if there is anything I can help or assist you with please ask.
Hugs
Rachel Victoria
Don’t know if your still listening but aside from family and friends five things that I love in life are, 1) the way I feel when I am dressed and look at myself in the mirror, 2) the way I feel so free when I am dressed taking a long walk or riding my old fashioned girls bicycle, 3) dressing up and going shopping and trying on clothes, shoes and at makeup counters testing lipsticks, 4) Spending time at beauty parlors getting manicures, pedicures, waxing, perms and the like chatting with the girls, and 5) playing tennis, jogging or going to the health club in femmel
Five things I hate in life, 1) pretending to be the person everyone expects me to be, 2) feeling on the outside like a loner because I am afraid to be open about my life, 3)Having to use the mens bathroom when I am feeling feminine, 4) not being able to work in femme, and 5) worrying about what my wife and family think about my crossdressing.
WONDERFUL Post.thanks for share..more wait ..
I lived till my 40s as someone that i did’nt know! I am 6’2″ male and i have been so happy that i went fem 4 years ago. I like all female clothing and wear fem clothing 24/7/365 a year. Igo in public dressed in fem and only had (1.) Negative responce by a woman in a resterant and a few questions abought how i dress in fem by females! . My Girl friend of 5 yrs picks out my panties,bra, skirt, blouse from time to time. And she understands my need to be myself.
To All..
I too have recently come out of my skin. I am one tall/big guy at 6’3″ 220 lbs. I have zero feminine qualities about my face, or body for that matter. When I look in the mirror, I don’t see me. I see what everyone else see’s me as. And I don’t like it.
I have always wanted to be “pretty” and sexy. But, I’m not pretty as I want to be and it’s been a real challenge my whole life. Through the years, I have secretly worn dresses and skirts while just lounging around the house. I do wear panties and sometimes wear nylons going to work.
Every now and then, I can “feel” that I have breasts, and would like nothing more than for my male genitalia to just, fall off.
But one thing I can say for sure. Up until a couple of weeks ago, I just thought I was a freak. I don’t think that way anymore. But one problem I do have, is that I live in the middle of religious town. And while you would think that things would be OK as they “shouldn’t Judge” but they do.
You can’t just put on a cool looking skirt or sun dress and go shopping, or wear your favorite shoes out in public. Nobody really likes to be shunned, and quite frankly, I believe that if I looked more feminine and felt that at first glance nobody would really notice then it would be a no brainer and I would be all over it.
But I don’t feel that I could go to work wearing the clothes that I would rather wear. I don’t think that I would be able to keep my job, or have to think of all of the dumb things that I would be ridiculed with. And no matter what the law says.. you can’t stop it, you can’t prove it. And in a “At Will” state, ya.. Buh-Bye.
We don’t live in an age where a man who definitely looks like a man, who sounds like a man, but doesn’t feel like a man, can’t be who is. We have to somehow, be what the “Uppers” want us to be. And I hate that.
Being a mature guy, with a grown family, maybe I should be cool with a lot of things. Well, in some ways I am. But I wish I had the balls (no pun intended) to just wear what I want to wear. Or not wear what I don’t want to wear.
I’m comfortable enough in my body to spend most of my time at home naked. I wear as little as I need to for modesty and warmth. I sleep naked, have done for years. I shun male underwear for ones I choose from the female pantie racks. No more tighty whities (as if!) but instead I choose hi-cuts that are so light and fit so well that I forget I’m wearing them. My shorts? Do I choose the knee length or longer? Give me a break. Mine come out of the ladies section, and short inseams – no more than 5 inches. My equipment is not small, but I’ve had no problem accommodating it.
I would really like to wear skirts or dresses, not to seem to be female but just because they are so d….d comfortable.
But in an area where men aren’t men and women aren’t women unless they drive a truck, go to church, and are republican…. wearing those short shorts and teeshirts that show off my pokies is just about as daring as I get. For now.
I been reading books called Gifted Adults. And they talk about a false self. It’s sort of a protect system. It sort of hides your true being. It’s about gifted people, but I thinks it also could be true about crossdress, androngyous and and so on. I think you need to talk to people who understand you and not judge you for being different. Or people like you that my opinion.
I am a crossdresser as well. But I am also bisexual. When any sexual encounter is happening I prefer to be dressed as a woman. I really want to dress up and go to a trans night club but I cannot convince my wife to accompany me. She deals with my crossdressing but gets very uncomfortable around others with the same desires. I hate having to be the alpha male and constantly (manning up) to fit into my surroundings. While dressed as a woman I feel totally comfortable as if it is how I am supposed to be.
I am not a cross-dresser but I used all kind of nice underwear I like to wear. I do not have to to tell someone what I am doing because I want to feel good and I want to be myself like God has created me. I am not a guy who want to excuse qwhat I am doing, just living my own life.
So, I am not using any kind of clothes which seems to others like a male clothes, it is designed and created for a mass which don’t know what way to go, I am going my way. And I feel great in it and when I feel good people around me feeling good as well. How come?
Just think about what are you doing with your body and your mind when stuck in a ritual male way which is not created for you, only created to find a way to identify your own way.
If you feel good in this kind of clothes for the mass of men, it is fine, if you don’t, then you should go your way. Nothing is forbidden, it is up to you.
Og Boy!
I would like to say, I have been in private for years with my desires and actions. I have been wearing panties and nighties at home with my girlfriend. Now is the time for me to grow up in my sexualy powered life of a man in women’s clothing. Good lord if I feel sexy in a bra and panties at home why should I stay locked up inside… literaly and figuratively. Today I am going shopping at Soma, they have such nice panties and it’s 7 for $35! Five bucks each for high quality panties wow! I hope to be able to get the matching bra but because of my size it may be difficult for them to fit me. Soma has 42 band size so wish me luck, Victorias secret is for slim men…LOL As far as why men wear women’s underwear I simply say it’s because it feels so gooooood! Think about it as Jesica says, I like women so much I want to be like them. When women get the desire to be like men it’s not frowned upone its even encouraged. They go hunting, fishing, out to the football game wearing pants and t-shirt and we all are pleased. Men and women both encourage it, why not the other way around. I plan a great day get some new outfits feel sexy and play with who ever I feel like playing with. Have a great day see you in the movies.
Patrick, you got it. We have to learn to feel good, then we are good to others, that’s the secret. Same as if you want to be rich you have to feel rich.
It maybe okay for you. You have understanding girlfriend. But how many don’t understand. Problemly who don’t want to or care to. Your luck!
Hi RachelleVictoria, thanks for the neat response,that was very nice.
I didn’t realize how long I haven’t been online.It is great to see how other people are doing and my own progress or changes!It is also great just to talk!
I have a wonderful wife who goes along with this new side.she says this new fem side is great,I treat everybody nicer,she sees this and feels it.
She is my makeup connection She sells Avon,nuff said! We have a resort near us,Rainbow Mountain in the Poconos,veryLBGTC friendly.
We seen some shows and went to the Kareokie bar e few times.I was impressed by the workers there and the clientele.Very friendly and non threatening, Going out at night seems a lot easier than going out in daylight.When I see my therapist I usually have a long walk from my car to her office.she encourages me”No one is looking at you,you are not that important!Relax,don’t trip in your high heels”
I am slowly building a wardrobe.I’m always underdressed
PS I also would like to gather and meet and hang with other CDers
As I always say. LifeIsGreat Stay Healthy Stay Safe. JackieOhNo
Intersting to read the comments. Well, I dress as I like, underwear, outerwear. It is just my style to prefer silky stuff, and I rember my first time when I was 3years old.
Sorry that I have to say that I am not interested what women might think or even criticize about men in skirts or dresses, panties etc. because men do not criticize women either. I prefer to say that everybody is their own boss, nobody can tell how the other is feeling, what he/she like, etc. My wife accept like I am, how I like to dress, but never I tried to look like a women. I use my skirted clothes every day, stockings when I like or when I have to dress formal.
Okay, I do not wear bra’s or high heels, all what I wear I wear it as a man.
I live in the UK and very recently the government has made clear its intention to legalize same-sex-marriage. Although some people are objecting – mainly on religious grounds – there is huge acceptance of this idea.
Just stop and pause for a moment and think about that.
This is a gargantuan change in attitudes from those held less than 50 years ago. Sexual acts between same sex partners was still illegal until 1967 here in the UK – and now they will soon be able to marry each other!!!!
Funny thing is, if normal heterosexual guys just wanted to do no more than wear skirts on a regular basis, society would ridicule them out of town. And if they wanted to do more to look like a woman then they would need to be very brave indeed. There are of course, lots of guys who don’t give a fig and dress up anyway. But they are not accepted by society and currently live outside of the mainstream.
Even in Thailand – the home of the ladyboy – they are simply tolerated rather than anything else. Tourist gawp at them and many hotels will not even allow them in. I’ve been to Thailand and seen this for myself.
I do believe that one day men wearing skirts / make up and other paraphernalia will be the norm because there will not be any men’s or women’s clothes – there will be just clothes. Still a long way off though.
I am only 14 and have very recently become a crossdresser. I am sitting in bed right now in a black pair of panties and I’m lovin it. I love to make myself look like a female, and Rock on to all the other guys out there that do too. I also have a passion of tying myself up, which I find almost as intriguing as being in girls clothes. I just wish someone would appreciate what I wear, and maybe even tie me up
I was raised in the south and moved to CA a few years ago with my (now) wife. I didn’t understand why I wanted to get away from my family so badly at the time, I know why now. Being around people with such homophobic and hateful views has really hurt me. I’m very lucky to be married to a supportive wife that’s views are in line with my own. I started cross dressing a few years ago and I don’t do it very often, but it feels really good when I do.
One of my New Years resolutions was to be more honest with myself and start dressing up more often. I don’t think I’ve done it more than 5 or 6 times in total over 3 years but I’m sitting here tonight in a nice little black dress with my wig and breast forms on and although I do have mixed emotions about it I feel good. This is a neat site and I’m definitely going to bookmark it and start reading regularly.
Top 5 things I dislike:
Mixed feelings
SHAVING! (I could body double for Chewbacca!)
Shopping for myself in public
uncomfortable wig(s)
Having to run and change to open the door
I too am reading this while dressed in a short black dress, cream lace panties and with breast forms fitted. It is a lovelly feeling.
You are so fem
I wish I could have as much fun shopping as you.
I never felt uncomfortable or out of character in any type of clothes. I think being weirded out by such a thing is foolish. When I was very little I wanted to be Peter Pan for Halloween. The costume had a skirt and tights. I never felt like I was dressing out of gender. Short skirts, tights, heels, small shirts why not. I think if you’ve worn those clothes you might agree that they aren’t all that fem. Cute yes, but keep an open mind lean bodies are great, lets show them off. Let the girls deal with it like when the they invite themselves to play ruff sports.
Equal rights & cultural values for men and women.
I’ve learned a few things. Like my panties I get them from manties.com . Natureday has some soap and breast cream and you can grow your own breasts. I’m in a 44 B cup myself . I think you would like the things. Just though I could help. Thank you all for the chance to help.
Tammy
I should not have to choose being either female or male. I’m an individual that feels better wearing colorful clothing to express who I am. My gender is not between my legs… it’s between my ears. It’s not about who I’m attracted too.
Clothing, that fits my body, can bring out my feminine and masculine qualities. I love skirts and wear one as often as I can. Skirts and dresses, at or below the knee and most often worn with leggings and sandals, are my favorites. But I don’t forget my masculine side as I rarely wear makeup or disguise my more masculine featured face. Fit is important, so I would like more colorful and soft feminine clothing that would better fit my body.
Many blouses just don’t fit my more masculine body, mainly in the arms and shoulders. And yet using clothing I’m trying to look and feel more feminine than masculine. Masculine styles, fabrics and colors just don’t appeal to me. So I’m always searching for more feminine clothing that fits. This brings my body more in line with who I feel I am inside and presents myself to the world with a smile.
Everyone should feel free to dress as they wish and express who they are. This is a right we all should have if we are brave enough to step outside the society’s gender box and be free.
I too have been a lifetime lover of nylon, satin, or silk panties. My problem is I am slender and wear a size five and have a difficult time finding that size. the smallest size most carry nothing smaller than a six.
Maybe I am at a wrong website or article about men’s skirts. I am not a cross-dresser nor transvestite etc., just a normal guy who has to wear skirts. Yes, your read it right, HAS to wear because of the stockings I have to wear. Those are support stockings, looking just short at it nobody can tell the difference.
When I stepped out in public first time I thought all people were looking at me. That wasn’t true, because most people don’t care about what others wearing. From the beginning wearing skirts 5 years ago until today I always get very nice comments, women and men. And from all these supporters I learned some very important things, i.e. what are women’s clothes, what are men’s clothes? I know now that just the person who’s wearing it make the difference, nobody and nothing else.
And in case of the bible, which tells that men should not wear women’s clothes does mean very clear, not wearing the same clothes what women wearing. A very clear sign of hygiene which makes sense. At that time trousers were not invented, everybody wore skirted garments. While men wore short skirts women wore long dresses until 18th century when some women cut their dresses in two pieces.
What I am wearing under my skirts is my own secret, I do not have to tell that anybody, so I won’t do it now. I do not feel comfortable in high heels (because I never tried it) nor do I see it necessary to wear a bra or wig or something like that – but that is my own will.
I accept free thinkers like they are, and I think nobody is like the other in any case, so everybody feel different, and as the result I see that everybody should wear that in that clothes/fabrics/style he/she feels comfortable in.
I wear womens clothing only ,I like the way womens clothes fit.
you can fine panties at any store that fit nice .Heels from payless fit me well i love them.. Dresses ,skirts ,tops all womens clothes are great.
Cybill
To Braam,
I would say yes,let kids and all ages its ok for a guy to wear a skirt,or
what ever else he may like to wear…SHOW diversity as far as clothing,…it OK ya’ll wear what ya like,wear what YOU want,not what the public wants
That’s truth but why! Doesn’t men can or aloud to wear in public. I see its true in some areas in the US and other places in the world. I never see a man wear a skirt, blouse, nylons or heels in public . Or look androgynously in public!
that last message was meant to mean to ” Braam” from Blake
Jessica, i just wanted to say, I saw your video here after seeing a news story about a women’s suit shop that just opened in SanFransisco. Being a genderfucker woman, I do enjoy men’s fashion and could only fantasize about finding the perfect, dapper suit for my wedding, so you can imagine I was happy to see a new formal option for masculine women. And I was also happy to fantasize my boyfriend walking down the aisle in a beautiful white gown, too…
But it got me thinking, why aren’t there bridal boutiques for men? Tailored to look good on them, to be a legitimate garment that a man can choose, according to his mood? Hey, sometimes we’re all feeling flowery, soft and feminine, and sometimes we feel sharp, bold and masculine. There should be a great-looking option for everyone out there.
Not only that, but I scoured google for a half hour looking for “mens formal dress”, “Mens bridal gown” etc just to see if anything like the butchy suit shop in SF but for men who want a beautiful gown. Nothing, not a thing anywhere. It just blows my mind the absolute biases gender inflicts on us, and everyone’s content to follow with a blind eye.
My boyfriend has a feminine side too, and I think it is beautiful. I love sharing my clothes with him, and talking with him about dressing up, me included. I love wearing all kinds of fashion, and I believe every person has a male and a female inside them, like yin and yang. you must embrace and nourish both to be balanced and whole. I delight when I can help my boy feel more beautiful and delicate than society tells him he can feel. It hurts me deeply to see the doubt, shame and pain ingrained in him from accepting his feminine side, while the rest of his world labeled him as ‘gay’ ‘queer’ ‘sissy’ ‘trans’ etc.
This is why I’m a genderfucker, gender roles limit the individual from spiritual growth, both genders. the reason for this inequality is instilled in how we perceive, expect, and mimic this segregation. Your video really inspired me and I wish more people could understand that real change can come to this world if we left these stereotypical expectations at the door, and instead delighted in what is good about each other, and the many creative ways we can express ourselves.
It’s basically a one sided society were its look for a girl to be a tomboy. But not for a boy to be more feminine in public. Its considered a crime for a male to wear a dress. But in places like Scotland men wear kilts. Even today and its consister normal. But wear a dress? To your questions is there male bridal shops maybe not! But I have heared of males being married in bridal gown before. But not so many, many years. In think there be a change how much or how soon it will happen!
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