
Last week, we learned of a new trend burning up the fashion scene in Japan and how designers were starting to manufacture skirts specifically for men. About a year or so ago, the hot topic was bras created for guys. Also, there are several internet stores that carry blouses, dresses and even panties that are tailored for the male body.
In our post about Japanese guys in skirts, I commented that these types of clothing (designed for men not women) do not appeal to me at all. Here’s why. . .
While I think it’s great that these clothes exist and understand why crossdressers would seek out such items, they’re just not for me.
Strong Enough For a Woman
Some of you may remember the old deodorant commercials with the tagline, “strong enough for a man, but pH balanced for a woman.” In the case of men’s women’s clothing (please stay with me
), these articles of clothing are cut for the male form which probably means tops are made wider in the shoulder area and bottoms are tailored closer to the hips. Underwear. . . well suffice it to say they are a bit bigger in the right place *ahem*.
As far as I know, there aren’t any retailers that you can physically patronize to purchase these particulars.
The Real Thing
Most of the fun in crossdressing is shopping for clothes and accesories that were made for the opposite gender and wearing women’s clothes manufactured for men just seems fake to me. It’s similar to people wearing counterfeit shoes, carrying imitation handbags and scented with impostor perfume. Sure, these things are all strikingly similar to their real counterparts, but it just doesn’t feel right to me.
I enjoy wearing clothes made for women. Yes, they don’t fit me quite right. My shoulders are always prominently displayed and my hips don’t fill out dresses or jeans. There’s an art in taking your ole male self and putting in the energy to emulate a female image.
Video Game Analogy
Speaking of emulation, there are several software programs available that act like (emulate) older video game consoles. Most of them can be had easily and the games can be downloaded as rom files. Using these tools, one can revisit video games from the past without any need for the physical hardware and cartridges.
This can be fun if you’re away from home and just have your laptop with you or if you want to try a game / game system before you buy it. There are even adapters that allow you to plug in the old controllers using a USB attachment. To a video game outsider, this may seem just as good as the real thing, but to me it’s just not good enough.
In both cases (clothes and games), nothing less than authentics will do for me. Call me a stickler, but I’d like to say that I’m a purist and as long as the genuine “stuff” is available and can be attained feasibly, I’ll be going for it.
As always, this is just my opinion on the matter. How do you feel about blouses, dresses, skirts and lingerie made for men? Is this your preferred option or would you rather stick with the women’s clothing made for women. Leave your point of view in the comment section
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I think I broadly agree with you – although I might consider the occasional item of men’s women’s clothing if I was having trouble finding something in particular in my size. But I’d rather not have to… and it probably wouldn’t be as nice a garment, anyway!
Yea, I just feel that there’s so much available in the women’s fashion department, and in a full range of sizes
I’d love more options for feminine shoes but I get what you’re saying
I too wish there were more shoes available in bigger sizes, *sigh*
> just doesn’t feel right to me.
Me neither. If you’re going to dress up, then bloomin’ do so. Don’t mince around the edges but get stuck in!
> my hips don’t fill out dresses or jeans.
Take two pair of shoulder pads and pop them under your tights (pantyhose?) to help with increasing your curves.
LOL, so true!
Thanks for the advice too
I have bought male clothing that was very close to female clothing. It was not the same as fem clothing. I feel out my female jeans very well and that is all that I buy. As for panties I have gotten very good at finding ones that fit very well. I am going to stick to woman’s clothing made for woman.
Great to hear that you are getting the clothes that make you happy.
Oh, how right you are about shoes, Jessica and nore.
And that sounds like good advice about the shoulder pads, Lynn. I’m still a bit of a noob when it comes to all this, so I’ve got a lot to learn!
Cute shoes really only go up to a size 11, size 12′s are available in select stores and 13′s usually online
Part of the fun of cross dressing is cruzing the womens cloths department. The dresses, panties, nylons, shoes that dont fit, skirts etc . They all make my head spin when I go to shop. I do like to take my tgirl friend along for fashion tips but she and I have different yet similar tastes in clothing. Nice shoes are hard to find but shopping by itself is just plain fun.
Shopping is fun, and part of the excitement in it is finding garments that actually look good on your body when they were never intended to do so
I could never buy shoes online, though. I gotta try ‘em on
Indeed. They always fit differently
I hate that
I started wearing miniskirts a little more than 2 years ago because it just seemed right to me. I was trying to find a body image of myself that represented the complexity of my personality and emotional dimensions, one that showed both maleness and femaleness. This image is complete when I wear panties as well. The rest of me is no different, and I don’t wear any other type of female wear, makeup, wig, shoes, etc. I am a male that wears a skirt and panties in public, but I don’t shave my legs or modify any other part of my physical appearance in the way most crossdressers would. I have never gotten a bad response from men or women in public and enjoy the freedom to wear what I want. Most menswear are drab and uninteresting and I enjoy the colors available in womens clothing.
That’s so cool, Chris, I admire the fact that you stay true to your own style. It’s always best to be yourself
Kudos!
I agree with Jessica, that it is an art to this.
The knowledge of picking dresses with the right cut, so it fits your shoulders, downplays the male features and creates the feminine illusion. That is what makes a drag queen.
However, if cross-dressing is going more mainstream, I wouldn’t object it. It would be fun to be able to drag with a straight male friend. LOL.
I sometimes crossdress to bars and cafes, and it can get a little lonely in a crowd of “normally” dressed people
Thanks, Lavida
Perfecting the feminine illusion is so much fun.
Dresses for men misses the whole point. I like womens clothing precisely because they are women’s clothing, not mens. If suddenly men wore dresses and women pants, then I’d start wearing pants to crossdress.
Funny thing is that I do wear male clothes while dressing. Usually fairly unisex things like fleeces in the winter and sandals in the summer. But that’s part of my persona, similar to how my wife and I swap flannel shirts and sweats.
Zari
That’s an interesting point, Zari. Many feel that they would no longer crossdress if it was something very widely accepted. Something worth pondering
Too right!
Women’s clothes hit the spot for me. If it was acceptable – firstly I don’t know what I’d do. Reminds me of the early years of ‘Star Trek: The Next Generation’ the men and women wore a sort of ‘unisex’ dress-like uniform, but it disappeared. For me, the idea of shopping for feminine attire will always overrule the idea of men going around in bras and skirts. Women’s clothes are more sensual and beautiful and, in my mind, will always be that much more special!
~Samantha
I completely agree, women’s clothes are softer and have such a great feeling to them, not replaceable by men’s clothes
I find the comments and the points made on your blog very interesting. Personally I disagree, I’d love it if they made more skirts for men, and if they made dresses for men too. I wouldn’t stop also buying clothes for myself from the women’s department if they tickled my fancy, but I would love it if I could find dresses designed for my body, I have a hard time with them currently because either the top half is too small or the bottom half is too big.
The thing is I also usually don’t dress to pass, I’m similar to Chris although I may do slightly more femme stuff than him, I wear skirts but I do shave my legs, wear tights sometimes, dabble in women’s shoes if I can find ones that fit my feet. I recently “came out” about this and started wearing skirts and stuff in male mode in public. I’ve yet to push the limits too much, but I have considered trying to add a touch of eye makeup possibly, but not sure yet. May save it for the rare occasions when I do try to dress in girl mode.
I do have to say, I think you’ve got your video game analogy backwards a bit. Seeing as our body is not the original hardware the clothes were designed for, and we have to do special things to make them fit better when we try to pass, doesn’t that make crossdressers the emulators?
You make great points Rye/Alyssa, thanks for your input
You give me the impression that you want to wear skirts or dresses in public, but are afraid to confront the issue up front. I have worn both, dresses and skirts, and initially the comfort level is one of fear of getting caught, what would my family/friends say etc, etc. To wear a skirt or a dress in public you must first be comfortable with yourself. Do you feel confident enough to move forward towards this goal as you have to others in your life. I mean like a new school or a new job. If so then go for it. I like the feeling of skirts and skorts and face the challenges head-on. I approach all things like this, because fear only holds you back and you can never achieve your true dreams. If this is your dream to go out in your dress or skirt then DO IT. As long as you are not acting in a bizarre manner no one will pay attention to you. Act confident, without regret, and go forward. It will allow you to set more goals for you to accomplish.
I do it in public, and have since last summer (2009) and a few random occasions before that. But it became a fairly regular part of my wardrobe last year. I did say in my post there that I do this in public so I’m not sure where you got your impression that I don’t.
I like women’s clothes. Period
yea!
A woman has two legs … trousers have two legs … so I think trousers are womens wear! Ok, there are a few men … their third leg fits in those trousers, too
I prefer skirts!
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Skirts are not women’s clothes only. The history tells us they were adopted from men, women usually wore long dresses. But women kept going to wear skirts, men in westernized societies didn’t. But there are 27 different skirt styles world wide which worn by men only, and they are still wearing it. Period.
Skirts and pants are garments, and they are not specific for just one gender role, they are unisex. No doubt about that. So, where is the problem?
Todays ladies most worn garment are pants. Men just have to wear skirts and all what they want, that’s the secret. A man in a skirt tell more than thousand words.
Excellent input, thank you MaRa
Maybe you’re right. On the other hand, indeed it could be a completly new trend style for men, men in a skirt or dress. Yes, I saw already men in skirts and modern kilts, this men were looking very good in this new wardrobe. I remember that one men had such nice legs, he could really wear shorter skirts, expressing a little bit more would be not bad.
Bra’s for men??? Only when there is a need because of oversized breasts by men. Otherwise it is only a play with lingerie, I guess. I know, Hope Alexander has another point of view.
High Heels: Well, originally high heels supposed to be men’s shoe’s, but Italien fashion designers made it to women’s clothes. High Heels always have a little, but nice sexual touch. Maybe, it will fit men too, I don’t have any experience so I can’t answer clearly.
Interesting, I didn’t know that about high heels. Thanks
As a crossdresser, I agree with you on the point of buying women’s clothes. But, in guy mode I have to say that I would welcome those additions to male clothing. We as crossdressers call them ‘drab’ and for good reason. But as more choices become available, the less that has in direct meaning. Going to a men’s shop is boring to me in that they seldom use anything but really heavy cottons to make most things I buy there. Sure they last longer as a result, but I just don’t like the feel of it. So, I’m a bit divided on this issue myself – when I want girl clothes, I’ll buy girl and not an imitation. When buying boy clothes I’d like better choices, and if they are what the article describes, I just might go for it.
I’m actually going to be writing an article on ‘drab’ very soon, stay tuned
I like womans clothes .. way more comfortable and prettier.
I can pass in public but have not gone shopping as a woman YET..
I think the idea is debatable..Ladies dept. has lots of choices while this would have limited availability..
I also enjoy the naughtniness of being en femme.
More men are wearing panties and skirts than any time in modern yrs IMHO.
“I like womans clothes .. way more comfortable and prettier.”
so true
Jessica, you are so right. Wearing women’s clothes is then whole point and nothing but the point. I love putting nylons on my soft skin because it is just like a women. I love being a girl not a guy being a girl. I have dreamed all my life of fitting in women’s clothes and I love it.
Louise
Thanks Louise, appreciate it.
Personally I agree with the comment about the real thing. But it is about time that the clothing barrier is removed for men as well.
Women have been cross-dressing for years now and it has become mainstream, about a hundred years ago it would of been considered scandalous for a woman to be seen in public in trousers and now it is so commonplace that it does not even cause so much as a raised eyebrow.
I look forward to the day when anybody can wear what the feel comfortable wearing and be accepted for it.
Yea, same here. I am tired of men being so uptight about clothing styles.
Guess what? I wear skirts daily because I have to wear support-hose; under pants those garment is way too hot, it extends the tissue and make my medical problem even worse. What else to do? Skirts and kilts are the solution. Nobody could find another option. I wear my skirts also for work (school) and wherever I go, together with shirts, tie, Blazer, jacket, etc. All almost in the same length, short above knee (20 inches); Tuxedo is the only exception: Floorlength little flowering skirt, short jacket, white shirt, black bow-tie. Never a bad comment, only a lot of compliments (which never I got when wearing pants, by the way).
I shave my legs, otherwise it’s a torture when wearing stockings or
supporthose, I like the feeling of smooth stuff on my skin. But I can’t find anything interesting in Bra’s or anything crossdressing stuff. Shoes are men’s style shoes because I wan’t to use my feet for a long time.
That’s awesome to hear martinus, kudos on being true to yourself
I have noticed every few years a few contrived news articles come out how it is *now* trendy for guys to wear cosmetics or similarly forbidden feminine things. It always seems made up to me, for the purpose of the cosmetics industry doubling its customer base/profit. I am with everyone, I would rather have the thrill of wearing the real thing and remembering some feminist thoughts about cosmetics friends told me I chuckle when these articles about “trends” fail to start real trends, thus foiling the plans of the cosmetics companies to get more customers.
Stephanie, I understand. But sometimes, I believe, some “trends” are just made up for business. The same with pants. Everybody knows that pants are not the best garment for males, and since late 1930′s it is known that wearing pants causing the rising diseases like prostate and testicle cancer. In cultures were men wearing skirted garments is that unknown. But who cares?
Just like a member of the crowd, doing always what others are doing, stereotype and unifom. Is that what we want?
I think there is non single reason on earth that men can’t wear skirts, so why men are so afraid to do it, going over prejudice and eventually starting a new way of dressing?
I only can say: Men, get out of your dress-cage, be brave and wear skirts.
Mara, I am already out and wearing skirts. No problems at all, but a lot of people gave wonderful comments. I am proud about myself.
I don’t know if this trend is made up for business or not. I like skirts and I feel comfortable in, a feeling I never had in pants. I’ll stay with it in future, and the most important thing: Skirts help me staying healthy.
I have always loved wearing womens clothes my whole life .Dresses .skirts .blouses .hose .heels .lingerie feel wonderful on .nothing beats legs in a nice pair of silky pantyhose on .wearing makeup ,lipstick ,perfume ,nail polish all dressed up is heaven to me .so relaxing to be dressed in something pretty and soft .shopping for womens clothes is just as much fun as wearing them .
I like to look and feel Femme, wearing clothes made for men no matter what they look like or what they are made from are not femme they are masculine. It is part of our culture adapting to the anatomical problems fitting in our clothes and the feel of the missfitting is to me part of the experience that reminds me of what I am wearing and why. I wear a Bra full time now as I have developed a rather nice Bust (I have a faulty pituitary gland and my hormones have gone towards the female side) BUT girls even when you need them Bras are not as cumfy as we would like so even the woman have fitting problems with Bra’s it takes a lot of time money and Bras to get the right fit. So come on girlfriends wear femme not masculine clothes we deserve to look and feel as female as we can and have you seen the hideous styles they have made for “Manties” no woman would be seen dead in them Im sticking to my real “Panties” (no pun intended “blush”). I love frocks my legs do not look good in skirts worst luck I prefer not to wear slacks or trousers when I am Marilyn the material flowing around my legs is so femme and oh so nice, and if you give a good twirl you can show off your sexy female panties.
According to the statements some of You said, You like to wear skirts because You like to wear woman’s clothes . Are You crazy? Skirt was not woman’s garment in history and isn’t in recent times! Women wore tunics, robes, next dresses and…trousers (firts in Ancient Greece, male Greeks wear skirts even now). First skirts for women appeared in Europe and USA about 1850. Thus women has taken the skirts from men’s wardrobe. Today women wear trousers more frequent than skirts, so if You want to cross dress You have to wear trousers (a birth of a new fetish – a man in trousers?). Skirts are better for men just for medical causes and are much more comfortable. So it’s time to change our stereotypes (and fetishes of course) and let manly men to wear skirts.
It’s not so much the “cut” of the garment that makes it male or female, for me it’s the material. If they made “men’s skirts” out of silky, billowing fabrics, then I might consider it.
The fact that they are making skirts for men is not really a subject of crossdressing. I wear skirts and skorts. I wore dresses at age 11, prompted by my mother. I loved dresses, although my brothers did not. My mother truly believed that boys could wear dresses and made us wear them (my brothers and I). I wore them when not in school and during summer vacations and school breaks. I even had Easter dresses and party dresses. So why is not a skirt really crossdressing? It is designed for men, it hangs onto the hip like pants. A dress hangs from the shoulders or if summer dresses the chest or neck. I still like some dresses and own 8 of them, but I also have 13 skirts and 6 skorts. I prefer my skorts, then skirts followed by the dresses. I don’t know how you started dressing or if you had to hide your feelings when growing up as opposed to what happen in my life.
Another thing you should question you readers about is why on your states drivers license isn’t there a spot for transgendered instead of just male or female. People who are transgender are a combination of both, either male body/female brain or vice-versa. Do you know some states require you to disclose if you are a crossdresser, even if it is only part-time.
I don’t like to wear female clothes, and that the reason that I’m wearing skirts! You have??? Not me, since I have to wear it as a “must” (it’s not a want it’s a need) I don’t feel that someting is wrong with it when men wearing skirts. Well, sometimes one thing goes wrong, I mean then when the brain can’t follow…….
While you do say they are making skirts for men, have you seen them. They are the ultimate in UGLY. Most show the guys wearing full length pants under them. Why wear the skirt if your going to wear pants? Of course they are in a-typical male colors (black, navy or khaki). With the exception of skortman who offers a variety of different colored skirts and skorts, including a gingham print skirt. I can purchase a womans skirt for 15 to 40 dollars, but these morons are asking a leg and an arm for theirs. I believe they start at around 500 dollars. I prefer A-line skirts and these being offered are primarily pencil style skirts. I sorry but I need the leg room.
I have a friend who has a utilikilt, which he likes very much but says he is limited in movement. Not so much as a pencil skirt. He has tried my skirts and likes them better then his utilikilt. He also has tried my skorts and has ordered a couple of those. All my skirts came from the womens’ department or I got them on the web. They are not frilly although some are lined, eliminating a need for a halfslip. They are in several colors from basic black to yellow. These colors are not available for men.
The other thing I saw was several dresses being modeled by males and they were in colors. The problem was that you could see right through them. All the mens’ underwear were clearly visible under the dresses. That is how sheer they were. One of them even looked like he was wearing white bikini cut panties. The other dresses that I saw were to long (ankle length) or mid-calf. Again these dresses were dark or earthtoned. YUCK!! If they are going to offer these garments why not offer them in colors like they do the mens dress shirts or polos.
I think that shouldn’t the problem where you going to buy your skirts, but I understand that men’s skirtsmust be much more expensive because they are made in single pieces. No mass production!
About colors: Well depense what do you prefer, nobody will tell you that you cant wear bright colors. It’s up to you. Like my girl fried, she only wears black – it’s everybody else’ taste.
Robert: Are you wearing pantyhose or shaving legs?
mara,
No, as a rule I do not shave my legs. The only time I do this is in the winter. The reason behind this is the house has forced hot-air furnaces cause the hair to become dry and brittle, it cause the hair to make the legs itch incessantly. My girlfriend said she couldn’t stand it, sort of like razor stubble on the face. She initially ask me to shave it off, which I did, but it grew back rather quickly. Next we tried the new Nair for men from the local Rite-Aid drug store. It turned out to be a lot better and the hair was gone for a lot longer period. So now I use it instead of shaving during the winter months. AS to the other part of your question, No, I do not wear pantyhose, however during the winter months I do wear winter weight tights. I’ve looked at mens tights on the web, bought one pair, and discovered they were no different from tights worn by women, only more expensive. It seems that skirts and tights made for men are always more expensive, but are made exactly the same. The only difference on them is the labels sewn into them and the placement of the zippers.
Robert; Yes, I believe that pantyhose for women and men the same. No surprise for me. The same with skirts. Skirts made for “Juniors” are perfectly fitting men, and labeld “Men’s skirts” mostly worn by women .
I do not see anything wrong with that, but it would be great when some more men wouldstep into a skirt-exploring adventure.
i love skirts i wear them around the house all the time ive only worn skirts in public when dressed in full female attire,and i seem to pass well of the 20 or thirty times ive been out dressed ive only been read twice,thats not bad i think,but as far as going out dressed as a man but with a skirt on im not that brave yet,although i do wear nude pantyhose under shorts some times and have been supprised no one notices or if they do my wife says they problably think they are for medical reasons.i dont know.i say yes to men in skirts.
Jarrod,
Why do you want to display something your not. Only a handfull of guys can pull-off looking like a female, the rest look like made over clowns. NO offense, since I don’t know what you look like. I look like a man in a skirt, I do not attempt to pass as female. With proper fitting attire and proper length skirts do look good on males. Skirts were made for men. It is the style of the skirt each man wears that determines whether or not it looks good. A very thin man would look better in a A-line or pencil skirt, but an obese man would look idiotic. The same goes for length Mini, Midi, or Maxi skirt. If you wear dresses then size, style and the way it hangs on you are all considerations you have to ponder. Although I don’t think dresses right now are designed with men in mind.
I have nothing against men wearing skirts. I just don’t see many men I know going for the look at that time – very sad. However, I know some guys who wear those Utili-Kilts and plain jeans skirts and they always look great in them. It seems to me that there is a problem popping up with nice shoes for men when wearing skirts and tights.
I am female and don’t wear skirts all that often myself. I just find pants more comfortable for myself, unless it is really hot out, then it is skirts and dresses all the way. Men, of course, must have the same opportu nity and the same possibilities to wear what they want and feel comfortable for their body. No restrictions at all because we all see that we want equality. Equality can’y stop on a minor issue like fashion. Definitely a clear YES for men’s skirts!
Wow, I’m so honored that this post has garnered such great discussion and so many comments, thank you all!!!
Yea Jessica, this topic is still hot until more men wearing skirts. As I wrote before, I am a daily skirt wearer because of a medical issue. I do not look back, skirt wearing is a challenge in beginning, but now I feel very comfortable in it.
Cross dressers report to the women’s section. Regular men that want to wear comfortable anything they want report to the mens skirts, pants,undies, tights and other items of clothing cut for men section.
I have just recently started wearing skirts. They are very comfortable; I wear them all the time on vacation and would wear them more often if they were more socially acceptable. They are cooler than shorts in summer and a long skirt is just as warm in the winter. More of us guys have just got to say “the h*** with it” and just start wearing them. I bought mine in the women’s section of your local store; way easier and cheaper than trying to find something “for men” on-line, and the selection was probably much better. No, I don’t wear any other “woman’s” accessories; no high heals (too uncomfortable), makeup (a waste of time), jewelry (too much trouble), etc. etc. And I always wear it over standard men’s “bikini-style” underwear because it fits better than panties and boxers would just seem very “wrong”.
Davy
Some of the people here have started wearing skirts to work, have gone shopping or just to an outing (theme parks, walks etc). I ageed with you that skirts are probably the most comfortable garment made today. I also agree that men should not overtly accessorize (jewelry, heels or make-up).
If you are a male then be proud of it, don’t try to mask it in some form to detract from it. If you are going to do this you will be LABELED as either a crossdresser or an effiminate gay male. While it in the long run cheaper to buy womens skirts, some just don’t fit right. Kilt like skirts (plaids) usually suffice or button waist skirts. The problem is going to the restroom, you either have to use the stalls or pull up the front of your skirt to access your needs. I found that custom made skirts are much better if properly defined with a button or zipper fly. I just ordered a navy blue brushed denim skirt from Skortman, he added a patch pocket for me and the proper frontage.
It is just like wearing pants but a skirt. It is also very comfortable. The price was reasonable with shipping at $75. He also makes mens mini-skirts and skorts. If you wish he will make a panty that matches the skirt in traditional mens’ sizes. I find boxer briefs a little better as for comfort.
BOXERS are not for skirts, to long, baggy and not properly fitting.
AS far as winter, try getting winter weight tights. These are available at all stores (walmart, target, sears etc).
Good comments, Robert. I am not trying to look like a girl, just a guy in a skirt. I laughed about your bathroom comment; it is definitely a bit harder. I usually go into a stall and simply pull up the skirt while standing up. I used to always sit down, but have now perfected the “standing up” routine well enough, but it is still awkward, so I am more comfortable in the privacy of a stall. In winter I have not needed tights, probably because I have not been out in really really cold weather yet. An ankle length skirt works fine, and because your legs are often touching each other, that helps keep you warm.
Nah!
Jessica,
I recently stumbled onto your blogs, and I’ve gotta say, I LOVE reading them! You’ve actually inspired me to start my own blog ( http://pantiesexperiment.blogspot.com/ , thanks for letting me plug that, and I would LOVE to see you or anyone else comment on it!).
As for this topic, I (as usual) completely agree with you. Its really great that society is opening up enough to see men get some of the same options in clothes as women. But like you, I don’t feel its the same. While skirts are much more comfortable than most mens options, that’s not why I wear them. I wear them and other articles because I like feeling feminine, and I just don’t think it would feel the same if the clothes were made for men.
Keep it up, and ill be commenting more in the future!
It isn’t important why a man want to wear skirts and dresses, it is just important that he is doing it. A wonderful way to more equality and a good start to de-sexualize clothing.
Who really can tell me what was not worn in past only by men first what we call now “women’s” garment? High heels, skirts, make-up, stockings, panthose, garter-belt, short dresses, wigs and pants came from men. Go in a good library and check it out……. ! Now we using pants, men’s suits, ties, shirts, socks and shoes like men…… is there anything which we are not using for additional dressing options for us? And in time of today we’ll tell men what they should wear?? Who is telling us what we have to wear?
I am male anmd I enjoy weasring skirts, dresses, blouses, tights and lingeries at home. I even wear lingeries under my shorts or trousers when I am in the open air walking about when shopping around. I even wear a blouse under a coat or a fleece when out walking. I must say that I feel more comfortable in skirts, blouses, dresses, lingeries adn tights, than I do in trousers, shirts, jeans, socks and other male clothes. I think that it is time that skirts, dresses, blouses, tights and lingeries were available for men today. Every tiem I wlak in my shorts, I get vcalled sexy by women and girls. So this proves why skirts and dresses should be available for men. As women and girls thik that I am sexy in shorts, this is why I would be more suited to wearing skirts, and why I would look really good as well as why woekn would fimnd me so very atrractive in skirts everyday. I would also be more happier to wear skirts everyday of my life as I also admit that I like dressing more in a feminine way thaan a boring masculine way everyday. Another thing is that I don’t have a problem with woen dressingmore in a masculine way in wearing trousers, shirts, jeans, sock, polos, t-shirts and ties. But I jsut feel that there should be a chose for men, in other words, meaning that men should have the right to wear skirts, dresses, lingeries, blouses, tights and stockings.
I really don’t see, what the big deal is! I am over 50 years of age! I am a man! And I wear a bra, daily! I wear a 40DD, full figure bra! I always wear a bra, with the cups filled! I don’t wear anything smaller than a D cup! I do have, and wear Blouses! I don’t wear dresses, skirts, or panties! Bras ( and sometimes blouses) are the only feminine clothing that I ever wear! I enjoy wearing a bra! Yes, sometimes it creates problems! But the only way that I will stop wearing a bra! Is if I decide to! All I want to say is: If you see a man wearing a bra! Leave him ALONE! He’s not hurting you! And it could be a bad mistake, to start trouble with, A man that is wearing a bra! Because, the person that you are hassling, could be me! And I am a second degree Blackbelt! And I have no quarms about defending myself and my feelings!
I love womens clothes. I wear womens underwear, jeans, polos, shoes, socks and so on every day in public. I’m not into dresses or skirts in public but do wear them at home. I’m straight, married and very comfortable with myself. I love matching bra panty sets and prefer more upmarket stuff like Le Mystere, Wacoal, Chantelle and so on. Their fabrics and quality are much better than the cheaper stuff! My wife got me a lingerie chest for my wardrobe. I feel sorry for those of you who have to hide your true selves. I’ve been there and hated it.
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